Some times its difficult to move on ~ be it from a job, or a relationship, or a place ~ even though we know that it is time to move on....
It is time usually because there is no growth of any fashion, there is feeling of stagnation, or depression, apathy, burnout, undue stress or anxiety, loneliness....and yet we drag our feet through this change....I wonder why?
Is it that the fear of unknown is worse than the present state which is undesirable too?
We do not want this and we do not know where to go either....questions, confusion, ambiguity ~
Yet, decisions have to be made sooner or later....
Opportunities come our way and have to grabbed sometimes....regardless of the joy ride they take us on....but again, this is easier said than done...
Some times we know facts and reality are very different from what our heart wants ~
we know that things are they way they are for a reason even though we do not understand the reason, our heart wants it to change with its every beat, even though it knows that what it wants is not possible, yet it wants...
And then when we do not get what we want, even though we knew in the first place that we were never going to get it, we get hurt, bitter, sometimes indulge in self pity....
I wonder why???
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Do let me know if you find the answer to that question?
tc
-KHOTTA
I guess it could be the familiarity with the 'current' and the 'unfamiliar' territory of the new chapters that hold us back.
I haven't been able to even genuinely look for a new job for 2yrs now. There have been others reasons too. But I guess I amy quite guilty myself of fearing the unknown and the struggle of starting afresh. Sigh
Hope things get better for you A- really. {tighthugs}
TC&KIT...S m i le
Hi,Wandy....quite a tough one,this question...whether to take a chance and move on,or,stay in the same place and rot..:)Well,what I'd say is,forget the fear of venturing into the unknown..just go ahead and take the chance, if your intuition tells you that it's correct...remember,you and only you are finally responsible for ur happiness.Everything else is secondary.
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